Introduction
Let’s get a few things out of the way: there is no way to write about “chubby chasing” without pissing people off.
Perhaps if I went to great lengths to meticulously cite the most scientific of sources and repeatedly remind readers that I speak of general patterns not universal laws nor judgements of value, I would mollify some of the well-intentioned yet close-minded folks. Yet if we as a society require such effort to entertain any argument, we give voice to only the most industrious (who are willing to devote pages to differentiating between “chubby” and “thicc”) and rob ourselves of a wealth of more intuitive, commonplace, and practical knowledge.
But I do not write for popular opinion; I believe in tough love and the potential for truth to improve one’s life. Hopefully some will use this essay for such a noble purpose.
Speculations
There is less competition for chubby women so some men are attracted by a more favorable odds of obtaining and retaining a woman.
Additionally chubby women are associated with other qualities that are attractive to some men. Chubby women enjoy a reputation for requiring less effort to seduce and being more willing for sexual experimentation. I suspect this reputation is generally true and the eagerness to physically please others is a natural response to external messages of physical inadequacy. There is also a strong correlation between chubbiness and impaired decision-making that would in theory make someone easier to seduce.
Chubby women may also be desired for reasons other than sex. Another natural response to feelings of physical inadequacy is to develop an attractive personality. Of course, there are other less adaptive responses, but I do think this is not uncommon and similar to the “ugly duckling syndrome”. Some men may also simply enjoy rebelling and challenging societal standards of value.
There are also more sinister psychological reasons a man may pursue a chubby chick. Many of these reasons stem from a belief that because a person is chubby they are inferior, morally bad, and less deserving of respect. Some men may enjoy a feeling of relative superiority when comparing themselves to someone whose flaws are more visible. This sense of superiority may also justify more selfish sexual behaviors since the other person is seen as less worthy of consideration. In the extreme one may enjoy a sense of moral achievement by fulfilling their duty to punish women for their sin of being chubby by domineering, degrading, and being physically rough.
Conclusion
While all of this is much more complicated than what I’ve stated, I do believe it to be generally true and a good framework for honestly evaluating your own preferences, intentions, and actions.
Are you chubby chasing purely for sex? Are your actual preferences for chubby women or is that all you can get? Or perhaps chubby women are simply what you’ve grown accustomed to?